Another stranger. Best so far.

I got married for the first time as a Junior in college. He was my equal in age but less mature socially.
Two months after graduation, he was offered a position in Seattle. I had no interest in leaving NYS. Living apart for 13 months, we ended the marriage with a divorce.
Currently I am happily married to a wonderful man who is five years my senior.
We have been swinging privately for a bit over two years.

Let me share with you how we evolved.

Like most couples my husband learned how to touch my body, turn me on and satisfy my need before he got off. But I became accustomed to that
and got numb emotionally and physically. Things just don't work as well as they did before.
I was guilty of the same. Nights I took the lead, touching, sucking and mounting him till he exploded. In time it took longer for him to get an erection or worse.
That stereotype that men are the only ones who crave something new in bed is so false. I need sexual novelty as well. I have the urge of doing something totally outside our sexual script.
I was bold enough to suggest trying new things in and out of our bedroom.
I purchased a few lingerie items. I bought a couple of adult toys. I cut up an old clothesline rope.
He was the first to suggest involving other people. He assured me that our relationship was strong enough that jealousy would not be an issue.

Together we seek out new sexual partners for us to meet with. Right after the new partner leaves we make love that brings us to reaching new heights and having better sex.
When you know that your partner is also enjoying the erotic moments, you will enjoy it more as well.